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Pre-register for the Get Over Your Ex program to gain instant access to the holiday breakup course + coaching from Breakup Coach Dorothy during the holiday season!
FIRST HOLIDAY BREAKUP CALL: November 24th, 2020
DEADLINE TO ENROLL: January 15th, 2021
OFFICIAL PROGRAM START DATE: January 18th, 2021
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN I SIGN UP? You’ll be sent an email with all materials to get started and access to the client portal where you can start, asking questions, get coached, and dive into the FREE HOLIDAY BREAKUP COURSE!
GROUP CALL TIMES: You will receive the call schedule once you sign up so you can block of those dates and times. I have bravehearts in all areas of the world, with a variety of work schedules and time zones so a scatter calls in a way that ensures everyone can find a time to join. All calls will be recorded so if you are unable to attend you will be able to rewatch at your convenience.
1:1 CALL TIMES w/ BREAKUP COACH DOROTHY: First-come, first-serve scheduling based on schedule provided after sign up.
My 7 year relationship ended (via phone) 2 months after moving into our new home together. And to say I was devastated was an understatement.
The life I worked for was ripped out of my hands with no say.
He started openly dating someone new 1 month later.
Sadness, loss, grief.
I was mourning someone who was still alive.
Anger, betrayal, and resentment.
Clearly, he never loved me if he had moved on so quickly.
Staying busy, traveling, getting in the best shape of my life, loving myself, taking it day by day.
NONE of it worked.
A year later…
I still constantly thought about him.
Complaining about what he did. Stalking him and his new girlfriend on social media and
constantly trying to one up him.
It started to affect my new romantic partnership and that’s when I realized..
this isn’t how life is supposed to be.
Can you image that? — Waking up and him NOT being the first thing you think of?!
The anger and resentment completely gone.
Feeling fully in control of your life again.
No longer jealous or insecure but genuinely happy, confident and secure in your own skin without him?
No more old patterns continuously repeating in your life.
So excited about the life you create that you don’t even think about him?
THAT is what I’m saying is available to you, now, like TODAY.
Truth: Your efforts thus far haven’t helped you get where you want to be. So in order to change that, you’ve got to change the approach.
The fact is: Whether it’s been 1 week or 3 years since your relationship ended, the solution is the same.
Getting over your ex is NOT about just staying busing and taking time to heal.
It’s about building the skill to completely reduce the DESIRE for your ex.
If you didn’t desire your ex anymore you wouldn’t be stalking his social media, reaching out or struggling to move on in your life. It’s the solution to it all.
The most comprehensive breakup program specifically
designed for getting over your ex without it just taking time.
Meet Tela
I learned not to rely on a relationship as my only source of happiness. I was always the type of girl to be in a relationship and jump from relationship to relationship. I allowed relationships to consume me and never be my own person. In fact, this is the longest I’ve ever been single since I was 15 years old (now 31), and holy shit, it is a blast! I thought that I needed a man to make me happy, in which really, I can (and have) created my own happiness.
Create a life you’re so obsessed with that stalking your ex’s social media or texting him never even enters your mind.
Stop your ex from living rent free in your mind all day and all night. Stop thinking more about him than you do yourself.
Build a life better than the one you had with your ex in a way that feels as good as done.
Freedom from what your ex does, doesn’t do or think – no longer being emotionally tied to him
Confidence and trust in yourself that eliminates second guessing your past decisions or behavior so that you have full faith in your future
Security in a life you’re excited about that isn’t reliant on someone else (even if that’s a husband and kids)
The life you wanted with your ex, but better!
You not only learn everything you need to get over your ex and
build a life better than the one you had with your ex, you’ve created it.
The Get Over Your Ex Program
A live group coaching experience that helps you get over your ex and build a life better than the one you had with your ex!
If you’re feeling lost and don’t know where to start after an earth-shattering breakup, the breakup masterclass walks you through the entire 3-month process step by step.
It helps take you from googling “how to get over my ex” or “how to forgive and let go” TO “I’m over my ex and have created a life my ex would die to be a part of”.
Group coaching is where the concepts you’re learning turn into your reality. Come to the call with your specific problem and leave with a specific solution.
Whether you’re being the one coached or watching the coaching, you’ll never leave the session without a personal transformation. Getting over your ex becomes as good as done in these sessions.
Ask your personal questions, get coached on intimate topics and maintain your progress with monthly 1:1 check-ins with Breakup Coach Dorothy.
Feel seen and supported along your journey with an expert who can ensure your success in truly getting over your ex.
The community forum is important to your healing journey because it gives you access to others who are going through the same thing.
Feel seen and heard as we celebrate wins, have discussions, and all work towards healing heartbreak and creating lives we never knew were possible.
Get answers to your questions, feedback on homework, and help with your specific breakup situations using unlimited written coaching and Q&A.
By utilizing this portion of the program, your breakup is as good as forgotten.
The breakup bible makes the breakup process clearer, simple, and easy to understand.
It gives you daily activities that support you as you go through the breakup masterclass and learn these new tools that help you design your breakup protocols, rewrite your breakup story and design your worthiness tree so that you get over your ex and build the life you wanted with him, but better!
Less second guessing yourself, more decisive decision making, no more compromising for what you really want and doubting what’s available to you in your future. Feel good about who you are, the decisions you make, and how you show up in the world. PRICELESS PERIOD.
Waking up wishing your real life was the dream is no way to live. It’s not just about the pain of the heartbreak, it’s about the constant shoulding and wishing you would have been different or done something different that adds up. Feel happier when you’ve come to peace with how everything happened within your relationship and the breakup.
When you feel good about your choices all your relationships improve, including the one with yourself. You have more to give to the people you love and more energy to create a future that excites you when you spend less time mentally beating yourself up and talking negatively to yourself. Create a relationship with you that is impermeable.
Less mental exhaustion because you’re no longer obsessing over someone you can’t control means feeling more in control of your own life. Be highly focused and attentive to do the things you DO have control over in your life. And… your job will thank you.
It’s not just the cost of the nights out with the girls, it’s all the getting your hair/nails done, eating, smoking, shopping, traveling you do to try and “feel better”. Trust me, I get it. But it adds up. Have more money because you won’t be running from your feelings or trying to constantly “fix” yourself.
It’s the mental real-estate that your ex takes up in your mind. Think about how often you spend your time daydreaming about your ex coming back or ruminating about all the things he did wrong. What would you be doing with that time if it wasn’t spent on someone who’s no longer in your life?
Who doesn’t want to feel happier, have a better relationship with themselves, have more certainty in their life, get more done, and have more money/time?
The best way to get someone back is to get over them. You’re not going to get an ex back by staying the same. And let’s be honest, wouldn’t you rather get to a place where you LOVE your life regardless of who’s in it? And a new you means new relationships with others (whether that’s with your ex or your next partner).
You won’t, I promise. We’ve got a plan for every obstacle (a late night text, stalking the social media, running into him at an event). If you have a setback, you’ll learn how to use it to get valuable insight into how to overcome it. No Braveheart gets left behind in the Get Over Your Ex Program.
The way you feel is created by the story you have about your heartbreak. Time won’t heal heartbreak, changing your story about your breakup will. If over time you don’t change your story, neither will your feelings. Learning a new way to cope with heartbreak will change how you forever respond to heartbreak. Isn’t that a skill you want to have for the rest of your life? And honestly, if we are both being honest here, you know this isn’t just about your breakup. It’s about the rest of your life.
Meet Jessica
There is no doubt that this program has changed my life. When I look back at my first session with Dorothy and then look at myself today, the progress I have made is mind-blowing. I’m so incredibly grateful that I found this program. I know now that I can overcome anything using the tools that I have learned. This program is the best thing you can do for yourself especially after a breakup. If you are experiencing a great deal of pain like I was, Dorothy and her program can help you. I wish everyone affected by a breakup could have the opportunity to grow from their heartbreak.
Meet Chelsey
I was genuinely surprised by the amount of growth I experienced in such a short time. I didn’t even know it was possible to grow this much in this little of time. Working with Dorothy in her program has helped me learn to control my thoughts and thus control my emotions. I no longer feel like I’m completely owned by emotions. It’s made me a more confident and intentional person. Just that is priceless.
Meet Megan
The next three months are going to go by. You can either spend those months being mired in pain and working through it by yourself or you can have Dorothy help you navigate your heart and mind and help you find peace and relief. I can’t tell you how meaningful it’s been to have a coach who cares with her whole heart and soul about me and my growth. Its also been SO helpful to have access to her in-between sessions, something you don’t get with therapy (because let’s be hones, I’ve done that too). Invest in yourself and give yourself the gift of coaching with Dorothy.
Meet Aubrey
I don’t even know where to begin, honestly. . this work has changed my life in more ways that I can count. I felt completely powerless in my life before this program. My happiness was dependent on relationships, people and specific outcomes that were completely outside of my control. I knew I was unhappy, but I didn’t know that the only person who had the power to bring me happiness was myself. That realization is the single greatest gift I have ever received. It is so empowering to realize that we can choose to feel happiness despite our circumstances.
As soon as you save your spot, you’ll be provided pre-work to get started. The program will officially kick off July 12th!
This is a live group coaching program. You’ll have access to the coaching and course materials for 3 months after the start of the program.
You can enroll in this program as many times you would like to. Alumni Bravhearts often choose to do the program again after getting over their ex so that they can deep dive further in other areas of their life using the tools and skillsets they learned.
No part of this program is on social media.
Of course! Bravehearts join from all over the world, and the call schedule varies to accommodate different time zones.
Just like most things in life, what you put in you get out. During the first week of this program we recommend setting aside 1 hour a day. For the remainder of the program my ideal students set aside about 1-2 hours a week to watch the content and 15 – 30 minutes a day to complete the daily activities.
As soon as you save your spot, you'll be provided pre-work to get started. The program will officially kick off July 12th!.
This is a live group coaching program. You’ll have access to the coaching and course materials for 3 months after the start of the program.
You can enroll in this program as many times you would like to. Alumni Bravhearts often choose to do the program again after getting over their ex so that they can deep dive further in other areas of their life using the tools and skillsets they learned.
No part of this program is on social media.
Of course! Bravehearts join from all over the world, and the call schedule varies to accommodate different time zones.
Just like most things in life, what you put in you get out. During the first week of this program we recommend setting aside 1 hour a day. For the remainder of the program my ideal students set aside about 1-2 hours a week to watch the content and 15 – 30 minutes a day to complete the daily activities.
Of course you can! If you knew you would be kind to yourself no matter what happened, would you be afraid to fail? Of course not! You’re not afraid of failure; you’re afraid of how you’ll treat yourself if you don’t get over your ex even with help. One of the most important skills you’ll learn inside this program is how to always have your back and stop beating yourself up regardless of what happens. It’s the only way to create change.
Up until this point you’ve tried to get over your ex using will power to say no to texting him back or stalking him on social media. That’s not what we do inside the Get Over Your Ex program. We learn how the brain works so that we can change our desire for our ex instead of just white-knuckling it. And when you reduce the desire for your ex completely, you no longer want to contact him or stalk on the social medias.
No. Having contact with your ex can actually be a good thing. Instead of telling yourself you can only get over your ex when he’s not around, you’ll be able to actually practice saying no, being there for yourself, and redefining your relationship with your ex in the real world! Real life doesn’t always include a clean break and a clean break is NOT required to get over your ex.
Yes. Heartbreak is heartbreak and even though your flavor of heartbreak might be different, it’s justified. This work is all about understanding why you have developed the kinds of relationships with yourself and others that has led you to where you’re at now and learning how to change it. This applies whether you were the one to leave or if you were left.
Yes. This work isn’t about deciding what you want to do for the rest of your life. It’s about giving your mind and body space from the NEED to be with a particular human to have a good life. Learning emotional responsibility and maturity will only aid you in future relationships regardless of whether or not it’s with your ex or someone else. Plus, if you do this work first (before getting back together with your ex) you’ll guarantee yourself a different kind of relationship with him rather than repeating the old patterns that created the breakup in the first place.
Very few. The vast majority of bravehearts who want to get over their ex aren’t severely depressed or suicidal. If you are severely depressed and suicidal please do not join unless you are under a doctor’s supervision and have gotten a medical clearance from a doctor or therapist. If you are unsure whether or not this applies to your situation, please consult a doctor.
Anyone is welcome to participate in this program. Breakup Coach Dorothy built the program for women based on her perspective (straight, cis-gender) and what she learned in her private practice coaching predominately women. Therefore many of the lessons reflect a woman’s point of view. If that’s okay for you, we welcome you and can’t wait to meet you. If not, this may not be a good fit.
Of course you can! If you knew you would be kind to yourself no matter what happened, would you be afraid to fail? Of course not! You’re not afraid of failure; you’re afraid of how you’ll treat yourself if you don’t get over your ex even with help. One of the most important skills you’ll learn inside this program is how to always have your back and stop beating yourself up regardless of what happens. It’s the only way to create change.
Up until this point you’ve tried to get over your ex using will power to say no to texting him back or stalking him on social media. That’s not what we do inside the Get Over Your Ex program. We learn how the brain works so that we can change our desire for our ex instead of just white-knuckling it. And when you reduce the desire for your ex completely, you no longer want to contact him or stalk on the social medias.
No. Having contact with your ex can actually be a good thing. Instead of telling yourself you can only get over your ex when he’s not around, you’ll be able to actually practice saying no, being there for yourself, and redefining your relationship with your ex in the real world! Real life doesn’t always include a clean break and a clean break is NOT required to get over your ex.
Yes. Heartbreak is heartbreak and even though your flavor of heartbreak might be different, it’s justified. This work is all about understanding why you have developed the kinds of relationships with yourself and others that has led you to where you’re at now and learning how to change it. This applies whether you were the one to leave or if you were left.
Yes. This work isn’t about deciding what you want to do for the rest of your life. It’s about giving your mind and body space from the NEED to be with a particular human to have a good life. Learning emotional responsibility and maturity will only aid you in future relationships regardless of whether or not it’s with your ex or someone else. Plus, if you do this work first (before getting back together with your ex) you’ll guarantee yourself a different kind of relationship with him rather than repeating the old patterns that created the breakup in the first place.
Very few. The vast majority of bravehearts who want to get over their ex aren’t severely depressed or suicidal. If you are severely depressed and suicidal please do not join unless you are under a doctor’s supervision and have gotten a medical clearance from a doctor or therapist. If you are unsure whether or not this applies to your situation, please consult a doctor.
Anyone is welcome to participate in this program. Breakup Coach Dorothy built the program for women based on her perspective (straight, cis-gender) and what she learned in her private practice coaching predominately women. Therefore many of the lessons reflect a woman’s point of view. If that’s okay for you, we welcome you and can’t wait to meet you. If not, this may not be a good fit.
Yes! This is a high touch program with Breakup Coach Dorothy. She checks in daily (Mon-Fri) in the community portal. And she coaches weekly in the group, all you have to do is sign up for live coaching. Lastly, you also get 1:1 monthly check ins with her.
Every week, all the bravehearts active in the program are invited to participate in hour-long, group coaching calls. The calls are held on Zoom and you can join via phone, tablet, laptop, or desktop computer.
Only if you want. Everyone starts with their camera off however most turn their camera on as these are small groups and the bravehearts typically become good friends and confidants.
Coaching is all about problem-solving. Breakup Coach Dorothy will help you identify the blind spots and obstacles getting in the way of success and strategies to overcome them. It’s about creating simple, effective solutions that you can implement right away to get over your ex.
Coaching calls happen on different days and different times every week to accommodate bravehearts in multiple time zones. Every call is recorded and posted on the site within 24 hours so that you can watch the replay later. Don’t worry about making it to all the calls LIVE. You’ll receive the call schedule when you join so you can do your best to accommodate.
Listen to them at your convenience! Some bravehearts in the program never attend live calls yet only watch the replays and still get over their ex.
Yes! This is a high touch program with Breakup Coach Dorothy. She checks in daily (Mon-Fri) in the community portal. And she coaches weekly in the group, all you have to do is sign up for live coaching. Lastly, you also get 1:1 monthly check ins with her.
Every week, all the bravehearts active in the program are invited to participate in hour-long, group coaching calls. The calls are held on Zoom and you can join via phone, tablet, laptop, or desktop computer.
Only if you want. Everyone starts with their camera off however most turn their camera on as these are small groups and the bravehearts typically become good friends and confidants.
Coaching is all about problem-solving. Breakup Coach Dorothy will help you identify the blind spots and obstacles getting in the way of success and strategies to overcome them. It’s about creating simple, effective solutions that you can implement right away to get over your ex.
Coaching calls happen on different days and different times every week to accommodate bravehearts in multiple time zones. Every call is recorded and posted on the site within 24 hours so that you can watch the replay later. Don’t worry about making it to all the calls LIVE. You’ll receive the call schedule when you join so you can do your best to accommodate.
Listen to them at your convenience! Some bravehearts in the program never attend live calls yet only watch the replays and still get over their ex.
No. Most bravehearts find that by getting over their ex and not having a need to distract/buffer from their heartbreak pain, pays for the entire cost of the program (and then some).
Yes. You can make 3 monthly payments of $1,050. When you make your first payment, your card information will be automatically saved and the next two payments will be automatically drafted from your account on the same day and time each month. If you need to update your card information later, this can be done.
No. If you show up and do the work, you will get over your ex. We don’t offer refunds so that you will go all in on the process and create the change you want.
Possibly. Check with your employer or insurance provider if you are unsure. Once you sign up for the Get Over Your Ex program you will receive an email receipt that you can include in any paperwork.
What are the fees in my currency? The fee for the Get Over Your Ex program is listed in U.S. dollars.
No I do not, this is the only way to work with me. However, how did your expenses double? Your expenses didn’t double, your income went down. Why might you be viewing this as your expenses doubling? If your income could double when you met someone, couldn’t it be subject to double for some other reason? What would it be like to be open to that? How can you leverage this same thought process to increase other possibilities in every area of your life? This is a one time expense, so you really only have to worry about where you’re going to get this right now, not necessarily ongoing. What are all the possible ways you can generate $3,000? I believe in you!
No. Most bravehearts find that by getting over their ex and not having a need to distract/buffer from their heartbreak pain, pays for the entire cost of the program (and then some).
Yes. You can make 3 monthly payments of $1,050. When you make your first payment, your card information will be automatically saved and the next two payments will be automatically drafted from your account on the same day and time each month. If you need to update your card information later, this can be done.
No. If you show up and do the work, you will get over your ex. We don’t offer refunds so that you will go all in on the process and create the change you want.
Possibly. Check with your employer or insurance provider if you are unsure. Once you sign up for the Get Over Your Ex program you will receive an email receipt that you can include in any paperwork.
The fee for the Get Over Your Ex program is listed in U.S. dollars.
No I do not, this is the only way to work with me. However, how did your expenses double? Your expenses didn’t double, your income went down. Why might you be viewing this as your expenses doubling? If your income could double when you met someone, couldn’t it be subject to double for some other reason? What would it be like to be open to that? How can you leverage this same thought process to increase other possibilities in every area of your life? This is a one time expense, so you really only have to worry about where you’re going to get this right now, not necessarily ongoing. What are all the possible ways you can generate $3,000? I believe in you!
If you have a question that wasn’t answered in the FAQ, feel free to email us at dorothy@dorothyabjohnson.com and we will get you an answer.
