I want my ex to see how great I am now

Now that you’ve learned that thoughts create feelings and you’ve been working on yourself since the breakup, you want your ex to see how well you’re doing. Maybe if they saw great you were doing they would want to come back? Or at the very least they would prove to them that you learned and are doing great after the breakup. 

In today’s episode:

  • Learn what the real problem is in wanting your ex to see how great you’re doing because it’s not what you think it is
  • Understand the one thing you need to do that will ensure your ex witnesses how great you are
  • Become the version of you that doesn’t even care if your ex notices

The More than Move On Mindset – build a life your ex regrets leaving

It’s not about the “doing” when it comes to getting over your ex. It’s about the “being”. Learning to “be” the powerhouse you already are. Learning to “be” the powerful, purposeful and peaceful self that already exists inside of you is where it’s at. And that comes from changing your brain. Literally changing the neuro pathways that have been embedded in you since you started your relationship with your ex. Changing the brain may feel effortful right now but that doesn’t mean it can’t be effortless.

In today’s episode:

  • Learn let changing the stories you’ve been telling yourself for so long doesn’t have to be effortful forever
  • Understand what’s been keeping you from making this new belief system effortless
  • Become someone who more than moves, she builds a life bigger and better than the one she had with her ex

How do I get to the point of “wanting” to get over my ex?

“Wanting” to get over your ex is the first step to actually getting over your ex. For some of us this step is more difficult than others. You may be someone who knows they shouldn’t want to be with this person but they feel addicted to them.. Or maybe you’re the person who truly thinks your ex is the most amazing human on the planet and that keeps you from committing to truly getting over your ex. Regardless, learning to decide to get over your ex because you want to is important.

In today’s episode:

  • Learn the secret mind hack I’ve used with myself and many clients to get yourself to a place of “wanting” to get over your ex
  • Understand what’s been holding you back from “wanting” to get over your ex
  • Become the version of yourself that commits to truly getting over their ex and building the life that’s bigger and better than the one they had with their ex