Point blank. There are no negative or toxic people in the world. When you define someone as negative you are being the negative person by perceiving them as negative.
We are all born 100% worthy and lovable. That is never diminished, ever. No matter what someone does or doesn’t do.
Your ex is not a toxic person. He is a human. Just like you.
The problem with defining people as negative or toxic is that you are then at the effect of someone else. It’s as if you believe their negativity could rub off on you or effect you in some way.
That’s not possible.
It’s our thoughts that create the way we feel. And here’s something for you .
JUDGEMENT = PROJECTION
So when you think he’s being toxic, you’re being toxic to yourself.
In this LIVE I go into why thinking others are negative or toxic only hurts you and leaves you in emotional childhood and what to do about it.
If you’re tired of being at the effect of other humans and want to take control of your emotions, let’s get on the phone and walk through what that would look like for you.
Sending so much love,
Dorothy
