It took me awhile to recognize this but when I did it became a game changer.
After my breakup, I had to go pick up my car and belongings from the house I lived in with my partner at the time. When I got there he had already packed all my things and put them in the front room.
AND I found out he was seeing someone else and she had been staying at our house ever since the day of our breakup.
I was heartbroken, on so many levels.
I left all my belonging there, packed up my clothes and headed to Chicago. In my drive to Chicago I remember thinking, “I’m not going to let this break me”. I was determined and committed to go out and build a life so great that he would see he made a huge mistake.
So yes, I was doing it for the “wrong reasons” but those reasons worked for me and that’s ok.
Because it gave me determination.
It gave me commitment.
To myself.
In this LIVE, I walk through why those feelings were SO important and how I help my clients create and generate those emotions for themselves after their heartbreak.
Imagine creating determination and commitment for yourself? Feeling so determined and so committed to not only “get” through your breakup but to actually THRIVE after your breakup! You can either barely get by, cry every day, feel miserable all the time OR you can be so motivated to create a life worth living that you go out and create and build your dream life even without him… which would you rather choose?
Sending so much love,
Dorothy
